11.20.2008

Looky What I Won!

Remember that post about using old clocks to display children's exact birth times? Well, well, well. Look what 9.99 will buy you. :)

One for the moment we were married, one for Caeden, and one for Claire. And one extra. Cuz' you never know...

I am so excited to get them!

The North Pole


Last year I took Caeden to the North Pole with some friends of ours. It's a children's amusement park (Christmas themed, as you might guess). We drove down to Colorado Springs and spent a warm afternoon walking around and riding rides. It's amazing how fast time has gone by - this time last year all the kids were in strollers and had napping routines. This year, Caeden doesn't nap (oh how I miss those naps...) and wouldn't be caught in a stroller (otherwise, how would he run away and play hide and seek...?)

I've been meaning to take him back there before the cold weather sets in but just haven't been able to make it happen. I was looking through old pictures and came across these ... I think they are so special to me because this was the day I saw a new side of Caeden.

Caeden was always a very timid child and new situations scare him. He has been timid and somewhat sensory-sensitive since he was itty bitty. When things are loud (music, traffic, people talking ... anything) he shuts down. So, I was afraid we'd get there and he would want to go home (the zoo, the children's museum, and the aquarium are all examples of this happening).

Instead, he completely surprised me and came out of his shell to have the most amazing time. He rode rides by himself, ran to the next ride and stood in line, SQUEALED in delight at rides that were making me ill. He'd say, "Faster! Faster!"

Anyway, that day was such a wonderful day because he really enjoyed himself, and for one of the first times, I got to see him experience wonder and excitement at things that were completely foreign. In those moments, I began to stop worrying if something was wrong and began to relax. He was shy, not suffering from any of the spectrum disorders I could recite in my sleep...and secretly worried about.
It was such a fantastic day.
And now, a year later, I look back and remember him like that. How little he was, how unsure I was of how the day would go. How he came out of his shell and never went back.

Don't you love photos if only to be reminded of progress? (I have several hair styles that fit very well here.)

11.19.2008

Enjoying it while it lasts ...



Can you believe they were in shorts and barefoot ... at the end of November?
It was 78 degrees yesterday.

Hi Daddy: Day Two

Playing Peek A Boo with the camera ...
Claire was laughing so hard as Caeden clapped her hands ...


She totally trusted him that he wouldn't let her go. And, he didn't.
Sweet boy tore himself away from his sandbox to let me take a picture.
How can she look so serious with that hair??
Awww, my sweet Claire.

11.18.2008

The Dining Room is No More

The room we have never, ever used. The one we were going to re-do with ceiling tiles and wainscoting. The room we walked by every day without a thought while entering/exiting the house...is gone.

I gathered up furniture from my bedroom & the basement, and stuck them in the room. Instantly, our house feels bigger with the large table gone. When you walk in the front door, this is what you see:I know it would be cozier with a rug, and pictures on the walls, but the idea is to keep it simple so I can scoot the furniture out the way so I can take pictures of the kids against the bare walls.


Here is just a snap shot of the front door. I found this card hanger/iron wreath at a great little shop last weekend. It makes me happy to see all the cards and correspondence from people in one lil' spot.

Hi Dad

Wayne is in Redmond this week, so as tradition dictates, daily pictures of the kids, who miss him SO much. On the way home from the airport, Caeden must have asked me 10 times when we were going to go back and get him. "Do you think he is ready to come home, Mommy?"


I told Caeden we needed to take some pictures so Wayne could see him...and what does Caeden say? "That is a great idea! But first we need to take pictures of Tiny (his blanket) so Daddy doesn't get sad." Caeden knows that Tiny has powers to make everyone feel better. It even cures loneliness.

Talk about sweetness all wrapped up in a jean-wearing, sand digging little boy.

11.17.2008

Weekend Update

{A sneak peek at our "Christmas" tree in our front yard. }


We hung Christmas lights ... & Wayne overheard a neighbor who nastily said, "Christmas lights already?!" We aren't turning them on, woman. Just avoiding the inevitable -20 degree weather that descends on us after Thanksgiving.

We washed more windows.

I attempted to take both kids clothing shopping. Without a stroller. Without a cart. Who knew Old Navy didn't have carts??! Just a bunch of navy mesh bags. Not cool, Old Navy. Not cool. No wonder I shop at the GAP for Caeden ... wait, they don't have carts either.
Anyway, before the strength of this story gets any weaker, let me proceed.
Caeden decides to play "hide and seek." Except no seeking. Just him hiding. And me, a screeching, scared/irrate mother frantically looking for him as I lug Claire's infant carrier and a 25 pound baby bag around the store.

When I realized that no stranger was going to want my over-hyper, non-listening, crazed child, I calmed down. I knew I was the only one who was going to want to bring this child home with me. So, when Caeden didn't hear me calling for him, he came out from behind a mass of coats...he ran full force into me and I lost my balance. I fell into a display of hats and mittens and we all crashed to the floor. I kid you not.

By the time I get home, I am almost rational. But I still tell Wayne that I will NEVER take both kids with me again by myself because the non-listening tends to get me upset. I have already been to Target with them this morning, so we all know who is a big, fat liar. But still, I had to be dramatic to get some sympathy from Wayne.

Except he really doesn't give me any because he believes he is worse off for hanging Christmas lights all day. It's tough work up on the roof. While this is true, I would give anything to be able to hide from the family all day on the roof. Maybe bring up a bottle of wine and order some take-out. Heck, I might not ever come down.

So that was our weekend. Today Caeden is back to his lovey, sweet self and I wonder if I hallucinated the entire shopping escapade. Plus, he got his school pictures back from school today. They turned out so good! I would share them, but when I entered his information into the photo website, they wanted my birthday - not his. Now the website won't let me in because I am age restricted. Nice.

With that I bid you ado with a picture taken at my Aunt Lyndee's house last year. (I have officially committed to Christmas!)


11.15.2008

More on the Christmas Season


I ran across some nice ideas and thoughts about how to simplify this time of year & how to make it more meaningful. These suggestions from other people really resonated with me and I just wanted to share...


I am all about simplifying things so I can really enjoy them. We decided several years ago that each child will receive only 3 gifts under the Christmas tree. It symbolizes the gifts the 3 wise men brought to Jesus and paves the way for discussion about what the season is really about. Our kids have learned the value of things and appreciate what they have.

{For Your Children}
1. Something to read
2. Something they need
3. Something they want
4. Something to wear

I think the most simplifying tip I have is that I gather your shopping list before thanksgiving. Then on Black Friday I hop onto my computer and shop shop shop. Pretty much everyone and everything is on sale on that day AND most websites offer Free Shipping! So in about 1 1/2 hours I get all my shopping done and then just need to wait for it all to arrive. This leaves me plenty of time to create and enjoy the season.

I learned years ago that if I wanted to enjoy Christmas morning, I didn't want to be attempting to take all of the wires and ties off of my kids' new toys, installing batteries, etc. So now, as I wrap them, I take them out of the boxes, take off all the wires, install all of the batteries, and then put them back in the box before wrapping them. It is SO nice, when on Christmas morning, my kids toys are ready to be played with and my husband and I can enjoy our coffee and start getting ready for the rest of the day

Anyone between the ages of 11 and 22 gets a gift card so they can get exactly what they want. When I was that age, the "thoughtful" gift was completely unappreciated. Now, I see that the gift card IS appreciated if for nothing else than the teens to have an excuse to get out of the overcrowded house.

One of the best ways to make the holidays easy is by using USPS.com. You can take care of all of your mailing needs at your own computer. You can print your own photo stamps for Christmas cards, print your own labels and postage for practice and arrange a pick up by your mailman. You never have to stand in a single line.

My tip is to just make Christmas about the kids. My husband and I decided to do this about 2 years ago and it makes things so much easier and keeps the focus where it should be. We don't buy gifts for anyone 18 or over. We just make it all about the kids and making it magical for them. It makes Christmas really simple and fun.

We keep gift giving simple with only choosing three gifts for each child - to mimic the three gifts Jesus received from the magi. It works for us. And it helps us keep spending under control and little hearts from becoming too greedy or expecting too much at Christmastime.

To stay organized & pay for a cash Christmas, I am using a prepaid mastercard. When it's gone, it's gone.

One of the things I like to do is find a fabulous gift and give it to several people. For example, I love to give books to my nieces and nephews. Last year I attended a book signing by a great children's author and selected different titles for each of my nieces and nephews. The author then graciously inscribed the books to the individual child and I was done with a whole group on my list. The books were a huge hit so I'm repeating the idea with a different author this year!

Organized Christmas for holiday planning and organizing

I find by doing a lot of prep in November it saves me some sanity in December. I usually put out all my decorations in November, and buy most of my gifts then, too. That way in December I only have loose ends to tie up to be ready.

For me, the 'feeling' of Christmas is really important. So, as soon as Dec. 1st hits, our Christmas decor goes up. We always spend sooo much time trying to figure out where to put holiday lights, which extension cords to use & where to plug them in. Last year, I did a little organizing (although my husband and kids thought I was crazy)and created a 'map' of our entire set-up. Everything is labeled in neat containers and ready to go. Come this Dec. 1st everything will go up quick and easy, allowing us to spend a great evening together instead of wasting our family-time outside, frustrated and freezing cold. I know it will be well worth the time it took to organize the mess.

Here's my .02 ...

My childhood Christmas' were always filled with the most magical feeling. Even when my Mom struggled and there never seemed to be enough to go around, she made sure Christmas was special. I remember the yummy breakfasts she made (in fact, I am making baked french toast on Christmas morning, which is assembled the night before), the smell of the house, and the care she took to make our house a home. Everything was clean and pretty and well, Christmas-y. I remember we usually got new p.j.'s and most of our pictures have my brother, sister, and I in our new pajamas opening presents. It's the tradition in them that make it so special.

Something I plan on doing is saving my kids' Christmas p.j.'s and make a Christmas quilt with them when the kids are grown.

I just love this time of year. Please don't be surprised if posts from here on out are all about the season. I can't help myself.

11.14.2008

Christmas Shopping Chaos


I ventured to the mall this morning to get some Christmas shopping done. Whoa - I think everyone else had the same idea. The mall was packed.

Since prying eyes would love to know what I bought, I can't go into specifics. But, let me just say it is so hard to stick to a budget! Wayne's family all agreed to stick to a certain dollar amount. I can appreciate that (with a little relief, too) but trying to find something thoughtful, personal, meaningful within x amount can be tough. Budgets always seem like a good idea until Christmas rolls around and you end up looking like a cheap skate.

"Oh, Val, I just love this sample-sized lipstick you obviously got as a gift with purchase. Thank you so much."

Budgets are a good idea! Just challenging...

Also, just to warn you merry shoppers out there - the people with road rage are alive and well. My local mall parking lot resembled a war zone as people cut each other off trying to get the parking space that is 3 steps closer to the entrance. The gesturing, eye rolling, honking were unreal! (No, I did not cause these things to happen (where is your benefit of the doubt, people?!) - just stuff I observed while packing and unpacking the SUV).

Ahhh, let the season begin.

11.12.2008

Deco File

Here is a cool idea: A place online to save and store all your favorite decorating ideas. You can upload from other websites, your camera, your hard drive, anywhere! While I love my big ol' pile of torn out pages of magazines, this is a great online version without the mess!

Create your Deco File.

Speaking of decorating, today I deleted our formal dining room from the house. It is now an adorable living room that is going to get LOTS more use. Once everything is put away, I'll be posting pictures.

Good Night!

11.11.2008

The Pink Elephant in the Room





Aunt Lindsay found this pink elephant at Anthropologie this weekend and thought Claire needed it (that, and she drooled all over it while we were shopping. You drool on it, you buy it.)

I was trying to take a picture of Claire on my love seat in the bedroom, but I couldn't get the angle, the light, or the background right (although I love them anyway!). Sooo, guess who is taking everything out of the dining room and converting it into a "cute" room that I can use to take pictures in...

Neutral walls, hardwood floors, and lots of light. It (dining room) has never been used, so why not re- purpose it. Camera equipment everywhere ... just in time for the holidays ...




A Problem?


I think I might be an addict. The UPS guy was here again today. He might be here tomorrow, too...

Our Weekend

Our weekend was so fun - but can you believe I do not have a single picture to show you?

Saturday I took Claire to old town Littleton (which reminded me of Brookside in KC) to shop. We went to Prince Street Dry Goods (linens, pillows, rugs, fun home stuff), Chandler Farms (girlie store with great gift ideas), and a shoe store that I fell in love with - found the most adorable olive green Miz Mooz shoes that I have been practically sleeping in.

When I got home, my parents and my sister Lindsay came over with a birthday cake and we celebrated at home ... I was in bed by 7 pm!

On Sunday we went over to my Mom's house to see her gorgeous hardwood floors that are installed on the entire first floor and the stairs. What a difference!!

Sunday night we opened up some wine and had dinner (see previous post).

Anyway, it was a great weekend! Hope yours was, too.

Yummy Dinner Recipes

We made a wonderful, yummy, can't wait to make it again dinner on Sunday night ... I highly recommend it! The chicken is baked and is super moist and the veggies are out of this world ...Caeden even ate the brussel sprouts!

Chicken Cordon Bleu

Prep Time: 20 min

Cook Time: 25 min
Serves: 4 servings
4 chicken breasts skinless and boneless
4 thin slices prosciutto di Parma
1/2 pound Gruyere, grated
1/4 cup all-purpose flour
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
1 cup panko bread crumbs
4 sprigs fresh thyme, leaves only
1 clove garlic, peeled and finely minced
2 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
2 eggs
Extra-virgin olive oil

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

Lay the chicken breast between 2 pieces of plastic wrap. Using the flat side of a meat mallet, gently pound the chicken to 1/4-inch thickness. Remove the top sheet of plastic and lay 2 slices of prosciutto neatly over the top to cover the breast and sprinkle a quarter of the cheese over the prosciutto. Tuck in the sides of the breast and roll up tight like a jellyroll inside the plastic wrap. Squeeze the log gently to seal and twist both ends tight to form a nice log. Repeat with remaining chicken.

Season the flour with salt and pepper. Mix the bread crumbs with thyme, garlic and kosher salt, pepper, and melted butter. The butter will help the crust brown. Beat together the eggs and season so the flour, the eggs and the crumbs are all seasoned.

Remove the plastic wrap. Lightly dust the chicken with flour, dip in the egg mixture and gently coat in the bread crumbs. Lightly coat a baking pan with olive oil and carefully transfer the roulades onto it. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes until browned and cooked through.

Cut into pinwheels and serve on top of Brussels Sprout Hash with Chicken Jus and Cranberry Chutney, if desired.

Bacon and Brussels Sprout Hash

Serves:
4 to 6 servings
Extra-virgin olive oil
4 slices thick-cut bacon
4 sprigs fresh thyme
2 pints Brussels sprouts, cut in 1/2
1 pound fingerling potatoes, split down the middle
1/2 pound red pearl onions, peeled
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
1/2 cup low-sodium chicken broth
2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
1/4 bunch flat-leaf parsley, leaves roughly chopped

Set a large saute pan over medium heat and add a 2 count of olive oil. Cut bacon into long strips and add to pan together with thyme. Cook for 5 to 7 minutes to render the fat then strain and set aside. Add Brussels sprouts, potatoes and pearl onions. Season with salt and pepper and cook until slightly browned. Add chicken stock and steam for 3 to5 minutes until liquid has evaporated and vegetables are tender. Add balsamic vinegar and toss to coat. Cook until balsamic has reduced then fold in fresh parsley and bacon.

Roasted Chicken Jus

Serves: approx 1 cup
6 chicken wings
1 large onion, quartered
3 medium carrots, roughly chopped
2 stalks celery, roughly chopped
5 sprigs thyme
1 head garlic, cut in 1/2
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
Extra-virgin olive oil
1/4 cup dry white wine
2 cups low-sodium chicken broth
2 tablespoons cold unsalted butter, cut into cubes

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. In a roasting pan add chicken wings, vegetables, thyme and garlic. Season well with salt and pepper and drizzle with olive oil. Roast for 30 minutes until the wings are nice and brown.

Remove from the oven and set over medium-high heat on the stove top. Add white wine to deglaze and scrape the brown bits off the bottom of the pan using a wooden spoon. Add the chicken stock and continue to simmer for 5 minutes to reduce the liquid until about 1 cup remains. Remove from heat and strain through a china cap, pushing some of the vegetable pulp through the strainer with the back of a ladle - this will help thicken the jus slightly. Add the cold butter cubes to the jus and swirl until it melts. Season again with salt and pepper.


11.09.2008


I signed up for a free class here.

This project is to record (or how to gather what you need - whether digital or not) the little things that become the BIG things. The important things.

Take a peek.

11.07.2008

Baby Love Letters

I find it extremely important to document. Caeden has 2 journals that I hand wrote, watercolored, & drew in ... capturing my thoughts, his milestones, and everything in between. Then I had Claire, and I felt compelled to do the same for her. Except ... her journal is mostly empty, but sporatic sticky notes are tucked inside with things like, "rolled over on 10/13" "smiled for the first time on 7/02." Not cute, inspiring, or heartwarming. Just the facts, Ma'am.

So I am trying hard to use the blog as documentary of their lives. My love for the kids and Wayne, etc. But, it isn't as personal, and to be honest, I am not sure I want readers to know or read every little thing about the family. Some things should be just for them. So, I thought maybe I would create another blog (or email addresses for each child) and record their lives in a manner that is more private, but still effiecient (not sure when I will ever break out the watercolors again). I came across this idea: Baby Love Letters. Every Friday a question is posted that is meant to be answered for/to your children. Can you just imagine how amazing it would be to stumble upon a journal that revealed your parents' thoughts about random things - important things ... things you might never had known otherwise? I am using this as a jumping off point for the kids, and just thought I would share it.

This does not mean I will not post daily here. I will! But when I want to tell Claire how, for the rest of my days, I will never forget the way she rubbed my arm up and down with her sweet, pudgy hands when I was feeding her ... or the day Caeden told me (un-bribed), "Mommy, I really love you," I will post those things somewhere private for them. A digital journal, but still a journal. Still my words...sans the pretty watercolors.

Anyway, I thought Baby Love Letters was a neat idea.

Happy Weekend to you all.

New Shoes


I had never ordered anything off of Zappos before. How did I not know about this amazing store? Free overnight shipping? That appeals to my need for instant-gratification and my cheapness.

I got Claire both pairs of shoes above. I ordered them at 10 pm and they were on my doorstep the next afternoon. Seriously, who needs the hassle of the mall?


I am quite aware her outfit does not match her shoes. Just wanted to take a pic for the grandparents. :)

11.06.2008

Playdate


Kaija's Mom, Michelle. I adore her.


The kids playing together like there is nothing better in the world.
I adore that!

11.05.2008

Memory Lane in the Mountains



Last fall we took a trip to the mountains. We left Denver on a gorgeous, warm morning only to arrive at the Continental Divide to find snow, wind, and 30 degree afternoon.
We had to stop and get Caeden a jacket to keep warm. Total mountain novices, I know.



We took the long way there. Over Independence Pass (scary, winding, tiny road leading over the mountains), through Aspen ... down into Glenwood Springs. We thought it would be so fun and that Caeden would love it...except he didn't. When we got to the Divide, where the air is so thin I think oxygen masks should be required, he decides he will not walk. He is screaming and crying, "I don't like it! I don't like it!" and I am pregnant, trying to lug his rigid body to the overlook...where, "we WILL get a picture, Caeden Koop!"

We left the overlook, defeated and tired. We tried booking a hotel in Aspen (we had stayed at the Little Nell the year prior -- the best anniversary to date) but were stunned to learn their peak prices were in effect. We were not willing to pay 895 for a room, so we headed to Glenwood Springs to the Holiday Inn Express. We took warm showers, gave Caeden a bath, and ordered the yummiest take-out/Italian food we'd had in a long time. After everyone was warm, fed, and rested, we packed the SUV back up and headed home (the same night). We promptly ran into a blizzard in Vail, where the visibility was so bad, all Wayne could do to keep the truck on the road was to look for the white dividing lines. The snow was coming down so fast it made me dizzy to watch. Talk about scary. This is probably where I should mention Wayne and I do not have coats, and I am wearing flip-flops. Please do not crash, baby.

We arrived home late, late that night. Fell into bed and haven't been to the mountains since!

Anyway, I can't look at the mountains without thinking of that perfect mountain getaway. :)


11.04.2008

What Celebrities Would Look Like If They Lived in South Dakota



This just came across my inbox. I am cracking up! So funny!!!
Now, anyone from SD reading this ... just remember I lived there, too!

(And you expected a preachy "go vote" entry...)





P.S. Go Vote!

 
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