Into the Weekend | Treatment Begins Monday

Wayne

1. Wayne starts chemo on Monday.

2. He (we) is/are relieved and hopefully optimistic because the studies done on this new cocktail have shown  promising results for Osteosarcoma (similar to the Chondrosarcoma he has).

3. Has the weekend to get his things in order and be with the kids (before his counts drop and needing to be away from them).

Caeden

1. Soccer

2. Birthday Party

3. Toy store for a surprise that I said he could have MANY days ago that he won't forget about. :)

Claire

1. She is a honey, but oh my ... I can tell she is almost 2. Giving me a run for my money!

Me

1. Helping my sister move into an adorable house in the Highlands area today. SO EXCITED FOR HER.

2. Getting ready for chemo and all that comes with it. This time last year I was a complete mess. I could hardly function and I didn't sleep. (I know most my family was right there with me on that.) This year, we all seem more ... prepared. I do think I have everything under control.

Except.

Yesterday when I picked Caeden up at school, a girlfriend of mine (and teacher) stopped me in the hall to say that everyone was thinking about us and wanted to know what they could do to help. Innocent and sweet, but I burst into tears! (I think it's just anxiety. I need to calm down!). The genuine concern is overwhelming and so appreciated. And, really, it all comes from loving Caeden the way they do. Thank you Little Blessings Preschool.

Anyway. 

Wayne is ready. And Monday will be here whether I like it or not. 

So ... here we go.

Today ... So Random.

Too lazy to search for my camera manual, I just googled it. I am almost a little sad I had to live without the internet in my younger years. Think of all that time I could have wasted online ... being lazy...but resourceful!

Today I am in a country music sort of mood. It's snowing outside and it feels good to have something low-key playing.  Here's a peek what my old school playlist looks like today...

Here is my new favorite eye candy: Peekaboo Photography. If I can make my dream happen of having both - a studio and land for natural light (still my passion) - I would want it to be like this company... I adore.

I have many a girlfriend who are all on the fitness bandwagon. Big time. Running marathons like crazy people. And, once upon a time, I was like that, too. Running a marathon is still on my "have to do before I can't" list. Training for them takes so much time. I don't have that.

But I do have my treadmill at the gym to keep me in check ... and maybe I'll run that marathon yet. Anyway, all you ladies out there who are doing this - do you ever run in skirts? I am seeing them all over the place at the gym and they are so dang cute. Let me know!

 This one from Lululemon (how did you know that was coming?)

A Bit of This. Of That.

Working on Lindsay's bridal shower invitations. Wondering why in the world I thought it would be a good idea to do a swirl frame (killer to cut out).

Love how they are turning out and love the finishing touch (a surprise for all you attending :)

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Caeden is working on his own creations, and since it's past lunch time and I have not fed in him in awhile, he says, "Mom, I'm going upstairs to get some grapes."

"Sounds good little man ..." 

He knows I am focused on the invitations and and he knows the country music I have blaring down here pretty much would muffle out anything he attempted to say ...

So he leaves. For a long time.

When he returns (with a huge smile) I immediately regret not going up to the kitchen with him.

"I ate ALL THREE cupcakes, Mom." - The ones I use as bribery, mostly.

Is it wrong that I am relieved that I don't have to make lunch?

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Have I been living under a rock? Totally loving Carrie Underwood and Taylor Swift.

My (someday) Farmhouse.

I came across this picture today from 

the blog The Lettered Cottage. 

It stopped me in my tracks. It is my vision of perfection (in the kitchen, that is).

I love the open, white upper cabinets. I love the gray/blue lower cabinets (it anchors the entire room). 

I adore the dark wood floors.

The pretty flowers on the island. 

The vintage light fixtures.

Beadboard ...

Sigh.

Someday I will have a farmhouse. And my kitchen will look just like this. Just like this.

And then it gets me dreaming about what else surrounds that farmhouse. A photography studio that allows me to walk to work? A giant yard full of green grass and lots of trees for gorgeous backdrops. A huge garage for all the props I tend to collect...

Isn't dreaming fun??

Right Now: LuluLemon & Music.

Listening to this new playlist:

Inspired by my favorite yoga store lululemon. The exterior of their (reusable) bag states all of this:

BREATHE DEEPLY

and appreciate the moment. 

Living in the moment could be the meaning of life.

Live near the ocean and inhale the pure salt 

air that flows over the water.

The conscious brain can only hold one thought at a time.

Choose a POSITIVE thought.

Communication is COMPLICATED.

Nature wants us to be mediocre because we have a greater chance to survive and reproduce.

Mediocrity is as close to the bottom as it is to the top, 

and will give you a lousy life.

Life is full of setbacks.

Success is determined by how you handle them.

The world is changing at such a rapid rate 

that waiting to implement 

changes will leave you 2 steps behind.

DO IT NOW, DO IT NOW, DO IT NOW!

Drink fresh water and as much water as you can. 

Water flushes unwanted

toxins from your body and keeps your brain sharp.

Dance, SING, Floss and Travel.

Jealousy works the opposite way you want it to.

SWEAT once a day.

Your outlook on life is a direct reflection 

of how much you like yourself.

LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN, AND THEN ASK STRATEGIC QUESTIONS.

Don't trust that an old age pension will be sufficient.

That which matters the MOST

should never give way to that

which matters the LEAST.

Children are the orgasm of life.

Just like you did not know what an orgasm was before you had one,nature does not let you know how 

great children are until you have them.

Creativity is maximized when you're

LIVING IN THE MOMENT.

He.

1. Doesn't look at the camera unless it's too make a ridiculous face.

2. I (kind of) like the challenge.

3. Got hit in the lip with a phone (by his sister) this morning and it bled and bled. He did not retaliate. 

4. Made me love him all the more.

5. Loves Randy. (Is Wayne's friend who came over last night.) Caeden referred to him as, "Heisinger," when he left (his last name) and acted like they were BFFs. So sweet.

6. Makes me so excited that Kaycee will be here soon with the kids so we can do that sort of thing all the time.

7. He has just a couple of weeks of school left.

8. Loves to swim. 

9. Trying to figure soccer out (me too!).

10. Could live on Clif Fruit Bars if I would let him.

11. Gives sweet kisses in the morning and loves to snuggle.  

I really love that about him.

12. Is into art in a very big way. Art time is his favorite.

13. Is a great conversationalist. Can hold his own with most anyone. Adult or child. It's impressive.

14. I don't have a picture of him from this weekend (Snowed 4 days in a row here but nowhere else in Denver. Very strange) because we didn't go outside much, but this one from Breckenridge always makes me smile. 

Things I am Loving ...

1. Yesterday I got a free pass to go do whatever I wanted. 

I spent it with my sister.

2. Shake it photo app. So fun to snap pictures when out and about.

Like these of yesterday while we sat on the roof of my sister's condo building. Grilling, laughing, and relaxing while the sun went down. Her friends are hilarious and it was so much fun to listen to the banter of 20 somethings.

When you come home at 2 am and then wake up at 6:oo am, it's time for coffee. My favorite ever. Forever. In a very loyal, almost obsessive way ... now if it would just take away my, uh, headache.

illy Coffee

Goodbyn Lunch Boxes 

Because they are BPA free. Because they don't squish your food. Because.

Blueberry Cobbler Baked in Tiny Jars.

Because I love blueberries. And I love tiny.

(Via Not Martha)

In the past week have had over 7,000 hits on my blog.
I love you! I cannot believe it. Thank you!

Meet Lucy.

Lucy.

Lucy Goosie.

Lover of all things people.

Never met a stranger/burgler/questionable character that she didn't love.

Not sure she would ever let me take her off the farm.

I wonder if she ever remembers living with us (it's been 3 years)?

She has the sweetest disposition and wish we would have let her have puppies.  She would have been a good Mama.

Claire Bear rides Lucy like a horse.

Lucy doesn't seem to mind.

Well, mind as much as I thought she would.

She jumped into the bathtub with my Grandmother. My naked Grandmother.

She loves water, so it seems.

My first baby.


To meet her is to love her.



XO

Val

Sunshine.

Claire's favorite song. Sings it morning, noon, and night. Maybe if she sings it enough it will appear.

Update: Wayne's Test Results from MD Anderson

1. The pain in Wayne's leg is not because of tumor growth. The tumor has not grown significantly (which is the primary area).

2. There, however, is growth in the tumors in his lungs--  but mostly in the smaller ones.

3. Dr. Patel gave Wayne the option of starting chemo now, or waiting 2 more months because the tumors have not grown a tremendous amount, but taking a position, Dr. Patel believes starting chemo is a good idea.

4. Wayne has decided to start chemo. He may push it back a week so that he can get some things in order, but he will be starting soon.

5. The two new chemo drugs are: Temozolomide (which is a pill) and Irinotecan (an I.V.)

6. The promising news for Wayne is that neither drug is administered all day like before. He will most likely do chemo for 2 weeks (for an hour each time instead of 7 or 8 hours) and then have a week break - and then start the treatment over again.

7. He will do this for 2 rounds (a total of 6 weeks) and then go back to MD Anderson for scans to see if the chemo is working.

Here is a simplistic description of the new drugs: Temozolomide Click Here and Irinotecan Click Here

Thank you so very much for your prayers, emails, and phone calls. There is no way we could get through this without you all.

XO
Val

A Prayer from Caeden this morning before school:

Thank You, God, for Your love.
Thank You for my Daddy.
Thank you.

Amen.

Transparent

Transparent.

This morning as Caeden and Claire sleepily asked for their Daddy, I felt it coming.

The lump I get when I know he is somewhere we wish he wasn't.

When Caeden asked if Wayne's cancer bugs were still in his lungs the lump came back.

When I put Claire to sleep this morning and she said, "Night, Night Daddy. Night Night Bunny. Night, Night Daddy???"- as in, where is Dad. I need to snuggle. - The lump returned.

When Caeden asked for donuts this morning (something his Dad indulges and I do not), I put them in the truck and we went to the grocery store. The kids in their pj's and me in sweats and a ponytail. We, of course, ran into Caeden's sweet teacher from last year, and 2 boys that live down the street.

I loaded up a box of donuts (and organic strawberries because I am complicated that way) and we came home. They happily ate donuts while I watched them giggle at each others' chocolate covered faces.

And I felt transparent. Do they notice I am trying extra hard to be fun today? Do they know why?

There is a possibility that Wayne will continue on chemo break. While I hold onto that, it doesn't really make it better because I know his pain comes and goes. And he limps. Break or no, the tumor is still there and it's hard not to think about.


The complete irony is that Wayne is powering through like a rock. He is private and strong and never loses his positive outlook on life. On his circumstances.

So we wait for tests. For results. We wait together but hundreds of miles apart.

Feeling a bit transparent today.

An Idea to Treasure: Decorating A Child's Room with Personalized Art.

You know their favorite thing? 

Their blanket. 

Their special dolly. 

THE toy.

Take a picture of it.

and...

Frame it in their room.

Fire.

Late last night, just as I was turning off all the lights to go to bed, I heard pounding on our front door.

I peeked out the window to see our neighbor, Allen, standing on our porch. It was late. I wondered what was the matter...

I opened the door, and he flew inside the house, while saying, "There is a fire in your backyard! Where is Wayne?!"

He was already racing through the house, to the door that leads to our yard, before I comprehended what was happening.

A fire. A FIRE?!

I followed him outside and saw red, burning embers in our mulch. As I went to get the fire extenigusher and to wake Wayne, Allen was telling me he thinks it is an electrical problem.

Wayne flew out of bed and was outside in a flash. A fire extinguisher and shovel put the fire out, but also our neighbor, Cindy, who lives on the other side of us, hooked up her hose and snaked it over the fence so we could saturate the ground to make sure it was out completely.

It was not caused by an electrical problem, but we had been grilling for dinner, and one of the coals landed on the mulch, causing the fire. It must have been smoldering for hours.

Thank God Allen was out on his deck last night (pitch black outside and he still loves the fresh air) and saw what was happening to us.

I don't want to think of how this story could have ended had he not been there.

Weekend Update (A big blur...)

1. Not a single picture taken.
2. Soccer: 1 practice & 2 games over 3 days.
3. Attended a birthday party.
4. Entertained friends from out of town.
5. Cleaned out garage.
6. Bought strawberries and blackberries for $1/pound. Score!

7. Sold treadmill on Craigslist and do not miss feeling guilty each time I walked by it.
8. Ordered a ton of workout videos off of Netflix.
9. Researched how to install a flagstone patio (need something to do to get rid of anxiety while Wayne is in Houston).
10. Drank veggie smoothies all weekend (Wayne's creations), ate homemade pizza (Wayne), and have finally admitted to myself I would MUCH rather bake than cook.

Pesto on Ciabatta: Yum for Your Weekend

One of our favorite restaurants is Osteria Marco in Larimer Square (Denver).

You walk down a long flight of stairs into a dark and cozy restaurant that is always hopping.

You feel like suburbia is a million miles away.

You get to hold hands and share yummy food.

But sometimes the babysitter isn't available. So, you do what we do. Recreate it at home.

And eat it outside with the kids.

With Kenny Chesney playing on the stereo.

And love that you are in suburbia
(a bit of a stretch, just go with it).

Love that you can still hold hands (Well, that part isn't true. We really don't at home. I mean, usually I am in yoga pants and am wearing no makeup. And don't get me started on WHAT Wayne is wearing. Really. You do not want to go there. Sorry honey.)

But the food is good. And so is the company.

Here is a recipe to knock your socks off. And it is so easy. And yummy! Have I mentioned that?!

I tried taking pictures but, hey, I am not a food photographer. 

Just trust me with how delicious this is.

Grilled Ciabatta Bread Accompanied With Pesto, Balsamic & Parmesan Cheese

Mix:

Prepared Pesto (this time of year we get it from Whole Foods)

1 clove of Garlic, minced

A splash or two of Balsamic Vinegar

Chopped Sundried Tomatoes

Tons of freshly grated Parmesan Cheese

A swirl or two of good Extra Virgin Olive Oil

*Serve in a pretty white bowl with a side of grilled Ciabatta (local bakery or whatever you can find).

*The key to grilling the bread: Do not brush it with oil. Just slice it and grill over medium heat until you have char marks.

The inside should still be soft.

*Kenny Chesney optional.

Update on Wayne

The past couple of months have been purposely quiet about Wayne. Quiet because we are firm believers in worry about tomorrow, tomorrow.

But.

I've been getting some email. People want to know what is up with that crazy fella. I am sure they email him, too, but he never tells me that.

But that's another topic.

Wayne and his Dad, Dave, will fly to Houston on Tuesday. Once there, they will lounge in posh hotel rooms and order room service with abandon.

Or not...

What really happens is a lot of hurry up and wait. Get blood work done. Wait. Go to next scan. Wait. Check the schedule. Wait. Another test. Wait.

And then Wayne meets with Doctor Patel on Thursday morning. He'll have his results back. Mostly they will talk about if his cancer has grown, and if so, how much.

They will talk about what's next. We have heard a possibility is high-dose Ifosfamide. This means Wayne will be in chemo 5 days a week (usually a full 7 to 8 hours a day) again. It is a horrible regimen but is necessary. But, that was just a guess by his secondary Oncologist, Dr. Hinshaw, that follows orders from MD Anderson (Dr. Patel). So, we won't know exactly what will happen until next Thursday.

So next week Wayne will be with his dad, for which I am so very grateful. They keep each other strong and are so good to and FOR each other.

I will stay here with the kids. Caeden has parent teacher conferences and I can't help but think about last year. Wayne was recovering from open heart surgery and came to the conferences - and it could not have been more than 2 weeks post surgery.

He is such a good man - which is a total understatement.

Anyway. That is all next week.
If he gets orders to start chemo, it will start the following Monday, April 26th.

This weekend we are trying to finish projects around the house because we know that it will be the last of Wayne feeling good for awhile. Cleaning out the garage, hiding stereo speakers (into the wall, I really, really hope), and grilling food outside while listening to Kenny Chesney (Wayne's go-to music for all things grilling related).

Please keep Wayne in your prayers.

And thank you for continuing to read the blog. I will always keep you updated with his news this way (not email or Facebook).

XOXO

Spring in Colorado

My tulips are starting to peek up out of the ground, thanks to my Father in Law who planted them last fall, when I didn't have the energy.

I found stones in my flower beds this morning. One of them says,"Hope," and was a surprise from my Mom. A message she left for me to find when the weather was warm and I would be tending to the plants she had planted for me.

The wind is blowing like crazy and my umbrella keeps tipping over outside.

I am eyeing my terra cotta planters. Eager to paint them cream and distress them before planting my herb garden next month.

I found Robin's Egg Blue spray paint at a craft store and it made me deliriously happy. I am painting most everything that needs a make over - side table, a stool ... and probably more, too.

Spent some time designing my sister's Save the Date postcards. Now I am dreaming of her bridal shower in June. 

Found these pictures on this Etsy store front and dream of warm weather and fresh flowers.

Spring is here.

Welcome to Birthday Town | Speed Limit 5

I have a million pictures to edit and post, and eleven children/10 adults to present evenly for their blog glory (ha), but I don't have it in me today. Today I will tell you about the party.

Caeden's theme was "Paint the Town." They created t-shirts as a warm up and then after sundaes all the kids went outside for a surprise.

Birthday Town awaited them. There was a sign that said, "Welcome to Birthday-Ville! Speed Limit 5 MPH."

On the lawn awaited multiple houses (made of wardrobe boxes) and a rainbow of paint choices to "paint the town."

The kids had a blast. The adults were relieved they were entertaining themselves. The sun was shining. Everyone was happy.

After they painted, everyone went inside for present opening.

Legos, cool building materials, a scuba play set for the tub, art supplies, and ... guns.

As soon as the guns made their appearance, ALL the kids ran outside and grabbed whatever they could find to turn Birthday Town into an old west ghost town. There were gun fights and laughing and running and playing.

The party was a huge success as the kids had fun and Caeden felt celebrated. He has the greatest bunch of friends (as do we!) and I was so thankful they came to hang out with us for the afternoon.

XOXO

Caeden's 5th Birthday Party | DIY Sundae Bar

This little man had his 5th birthday party Saturday. Also the day of his first soccer game (after a month of cancellations due to weather/traveling out of town).

His wish list for his 5th Birthday Party:

DIY Sundae Bar (instead of cake).

Painting "Houses" made of boxes.

Friends to help him Celebrate.

NO SINGING Happy Birthday (He's not a fan).

A Cowboy Gun.

We set the Sundae Bar up in the dining room and used a chalkboard to advertise.

When the kids started to arrive we broke out the hot fudge, caramel, whipped cream, etc.

There was a line of 11 excited children and 10 adults for all the  sundae goodness. 

The only mistake was not letting all the ice cream flavors un-thaw because Wayne and my Mom had granite to scoop 

as hungry eyes stared them down.

They still rocked it, though!

Out of vanilla, chocolate, strawberry, and 'blue' cotton candy ... Cotton Candy was the favorite flavor of the day. Sprinkles and gummy bears (with hot fudge and whipped cream) were the favorite toppings.

I wish I had pictures of all the kids going to town. They were all fantastic friends to each other. Waited for their turn patiently, stayed in line, and helped each other scoop.

Used jelly jars for the toppings. Made the labels with stamps and craft sticks.

Mom appeared with this gorgeous, gigantic bouquet of balloons -- a child's equivalent to flowers. Caeden (and Claire) had eyes as big as plates. So, so happy.

And Mom brought these, too ...

 

Two dozen cupcakes (from Nomilie) that the adults devoured. 

You know who you are, people!

As the kids arrived, they had their own pack of fabric markers 

and a plain, white t-shirt waiting for them.

The budding artists created their masterpieces while getting to know each other ... again, no photos of the action

(have you ever tried to manage eleven 5 & 6 year olds?!)

but they turned out so dang cute.

Here's Lindsay & Mom. Could not have pulled this off without them! Mom worked for two days straight, helping me create; plan; run errands; navigate the party.

Lindsay was my go-to girl to keep Claire busy while I ran around like a lunatic 

(disguised as a Hostess).

A picture of Caeden and I ...

(Pre-makeup but whatever. I was so happy to get a picture of us together. It doesn't happen enough!)

And a sneak peek of the birthday boy. 

Coming up tomorrow:

The Guests, Painting Birthday-ville, and lots of fun details about Caeden's special day.

Love you Caeden Koop!

Food Revolution, Cont.

I blogged last week about Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution on TV. The show is amazing. If nothing else, I will never, ever eat a chicken nugget or fast food burger again. 

Thank you, Jamie, for showing me how they are made. No amount of BBQ sauce can undo the sight of the chicken carcass' whirling in the food processor. 

Caeden has been watching it with me and I am trying to explain why he needs to drink Wayne's smoothies and why eating vegetables are important. He's starting to come around.

Yesterday he asked for Green Beans for a snack. We replaced fruit snacks with Clif Bar fruit snacks (found at Costco for a steal) and he loves them.

Does he also love Donuts? They might be his favorite food in the entire world. And I have no delusions that if I and a chicken nugget were both dangling over a cliff, and he was hungry enough, well ... I won't go there. We all know how that would end up.

But. We are all improving! (Now if I could get my bum to the gym. Please, someone, drag me there! And then let me watch you workout while I get a massage!)

While doing my usual morning blog surf, I found Cathy's free download.

She devised it as a way to get her son to try new things - and reward him for it in the process. If you have a picky eater, this is a great idea for keeping the humor in, "please try your broccolini, dear."

Spring Inspiration | Chalkboards | Decorating a Wall with Goodness

Rhonna is an amazingly creative person that I had the pleasure of meeting & learning from (at Creative Escape in Arizona two years ago).

Her blog is nothing but creative goodness. I especially love her take on the chalkboard wall. She takes it to another level with embellishments like pendents & little do-dads.

I'm thinking a wall like this is a must! And easy enough to knock out while Claire is napping.
It's just ... happy. And a girl needs something like that with snow on the ground this morning.

Farm Fresh

Claire thought the fainting goats were puppies. She kept trying to talk to them like this, "Woof! Woof!"

They didn't care what animal noises she made as long as she had food.

Well hello there handsome fella. Billy, I presume?

Caeden didn't want much to do with the animals, but everything to do with Grandpa.